PUNCH Reports:
Residents of Wole Madariola Street,
Aguda, Surulere, Lagos have been asking questions about what pushed Chidike
Oyeka, a graduate of Madonna University, Anambra, to stab himself repeatedly
thereby taking his own life.
PUNCH Metro learnt that the Chidike on
April 19, 2013, took a kitchen knife and stabbed himself repeatedly until his
intestines were disembowelled.
Our correspondent, who visited his
parents' home where the incident occurred, learnt that the victim recently
concluded his National Youth Service Corps programme.
A relative, who wished to remain
anonymous, said the 25-year-old had been depressed for some time.
She said, “He did his NYSC in Delta
State and only returned in February. Upon returning, he started to act
strangely and we noticed that he was no longer sociable. Most times he would
sit at a corner by himself and when we asked him what was wrong, he would say
he was not happy.
“When the symptom became persistent, his
parents took him to a hospital but nothing was discovered to be wrong with him,
so we took him back home and continued to monitor him.”
Narrating what transpired on the day the
victim died, the relative said it happened after everyone had gone to sleep.
She said he went into the kitchen, took
a kitchen knife and stabbed himself three times.
She said, “I do not know the time it
happened exactly but everyone had gone to bed while he stayed in the parlour.
Around midnight, he was found lying in a pool of blood and the knife soaked in
blood.
“His intestines were on the floor as
well. From what we deduced, he stabbed himself three times without screaming
because no one heard any noise. At daybreak, we went to Aguda Police Station to
report the matter.”
A neighbour, who craved anonymity, said
the deceased had once complained that one of the reasons why he was unhappy
wasthat he was unemployed.
He said people advised him to be patient
since he had only just completed his NYSC.
Our correspondent, who visited the
parents' home on Sunday, saw residents coming in droves to console the family particularly
the victim's mother.
Another resident, while consoling the
deceased's parents, said the family should have taken him to see a psychologist
instead of a general medical practitioner when he complained of depression.
Mrs. Oyeka however said the circumstance
surrounding her son's death was metaphysical. She said she had left the matter
to God but was pained that all her struggles to bring up her son were in vain.
“He was my first born and we did all to
make him happy but sadly he took his own life. We counseled him on numerous
occasions but this did not prevent him from committing suicide.
“I do not think someone can stab himself
to death except he is under spell. I leave everything to God because He knows
best.”
It was learnt that the deceased would be
buried on Thursday.
Just like the mum, I can't help but
wonder if Chidike killed himself out of depression or the metaphysical is
really involved. This is Nigeria, things that go beyond the physical happens
daily.
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